Tomorrow — Saturday, October 15th — is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. It’s a day of remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes but is not limited to miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS, or the death of a newborn. It is observed annually in the United States and Canada and, in recent years, in the United Kingdom, on October 15. The day is observed with remembrance ceremonies and candle-lighting vigils, concluding with the International Wave of Light, a worldwide lighting of candles at 7:00 p.m.
Here are some suggestions to commemorate your baby.
• Light candles and display them in your windows.
• Tying pink or blue ribbons around trees in yards, neighborhoods, and parks.
• Plant a tree in memory of your baby.
• If you miscarry before 24 weeks gestation, there is no legal registration of your baby’s life. Ask your hospital if they could provide documentation/certificate of your baby’s birth.
• Place signs and banners in your yard, neighborhoods, and parks.
• Have a ceremony at the hospital chapel, a church, a beautiful park, at the beach or at home. Traditionally we hold memorials and funerals to remember loved ones who have died. It is just as important for parents and family to remember the baby and to have an opportunity to say goodbye.
• Most hospitals have a book of remembrance which you can ask to have your baby included in.
• Write a letter or poem for your baby.
• Select your favorite charity and offer a donation in your baby’s honor.
Other ideas to increase awareness about Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day:
- Contact your local radio stations and television news stations to have them announce that October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month.
- Write an article and submit it to your local newspapers.
- Sponsor flowers in memory of your baby in a church service or hospital.
- Drive with your headlights on. Also, ask that radio and news stations announce this as well.
- Sponsor a candle lighting ceremony in a park, church, or local hospital.
Official website for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day: www.october15th.com
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